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Marriage. Babies. Showers. OH MY! And we wash, rinse and repeat blocking off our calendars for traditional milestones. And then what happens if you don't even reach those milestones....
THEN WHAT?
Do you never get to celebrate and have a moment? Do you just rot away until someone chooses you!?!?!? Are there no other options for celebrations? It’s crucial not to overlook the significance of other life events, especially for unmarried and childfree millennials. These moments are just as deserving of recognition and celebration. So, I'm here to remind you to throw yourself a party, have a business baby shower, a dog bark mitzvah (yay Noel!) and celebrate whatever life moment you are in and makes you happy.
Let's have a moment for the childfree and unmarried and remind you when why celebrating life events is important for US, a vibrant, important and badass group.
Acknowledging Personal Achievements
I mean, you have seen my tiktok and instagram around my dog Bark-mitzvah and my business baby shower??? YOU HAVE TO CELEBRATE WHAT MATTERS TO YOU! Unmarried and childfree millennials often pursue unique and fulfilling paths that may not align with traditional milestones. Celebrating their personal achievements, such as career advancements, completing significant projects, or even mastering new skills, is essential.
For many millennials, career growth and professional accomplishments are sources of immense pride. Celebrating promotions, job changes, or reaching work-related goals acknowledges their hard work and dedication. THROW THE DAMN SHOWER!
We do know that you can do other things and win at life besides get married, right? Like, anything?! If you feel godo about it and proud, throw a party! Achievements in personal growth, such as learning a new language, finishing a marathon, or developing a creative hobby, are significant milestones that contribute to their sense of accomplishment and self-worth. By celebrating these non-traditional milestones, we help break societal norms that often place undue emphasis on marriage and parenthood as the primary achievements in life.
Strengthening Social Connections
Celebrations provide a unique opportunity to bring people together, fostering stronger social connections and a sense of community. Hosting or attending celebrations allows unmarried and childfree millennials to strengthen existing relationships and build new ones. It creates a sense of belonging and support among friends and peers.
Share in the joy! Celebrating together enhances feelings of joy and camaraderie. It creates lasting memories and shared experiences that contribute to a tighter-knit social circle. It also helps to combat the loneliness that can creep up, especially since we are all on our phones and screens the majority of the day. In a digital age where loneliness is a growing concern, especially among millennials, celebrating life events in person can provide meaningful interactions and emotional support.
Boosting Mental and Emotional Well-being
The act of celebrating can have a profound impact on mental and emotional health, offering a boost of positivity and motivation. We love a positive reinforcement moment. Celebrations serve as positive reinforcement, helping individuals recognize their worth and accomplishments. This can be particularly important for those who may not receive such validation through traditional milestones.
So, if you aren't having those typical moments, you can feel kinda shitty, elft out and straight up like a worthless loser (or is it just me?!). I tend to think that taking the lead in your life and rather than WAIT for someone to celebrate you or WAIT for life to show up for you in a way that everyone understands, grab the balls and actively plan a celebration for yourself. When you take control like this, and fill your own cup, its how the confidence and worth build within and talk about unstoppable!
Plus, engaging in celebratory activities offers a break from daily stressors, allowing individuals to relax and recharge. It’s an opportunity to focus on joy and gratitude, which are essential for overall well-being. Regularly celebrating milestones, big or small, helps to create a sense of purpose and direction. It reminds individuals of their goals and the progress they’ve made, fostering a more optimistic outlook on life.
SO HERE'S WHAT'S UP:
Celebrating life events is not just a tradition but a necessity, especially for unmarried and childfree millennials. It acknowledges their unique achievements, strengthens social bonds, and boosts their mental and emotional health. So, the next time a friend lands a dream job, completes a significant personal project, or simply reaches a personal milestone, take the time to celebrate with them. After all, every accomplishment deserves recognition and joy.
By recognizing and celebrating these important moments, we contribute to a culture that values all forms of success and fulfillment, making life richer and more meaningful for everyone.
Start planning. And invite me. I love a good, non traditional celebration!
Pictured: Noel's Bark Mitzvah "candle lighting" celebration with sand and all her aunties and uncles.
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