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Empower Yourself: How to Take Action Even When You're Scared

It's a late Friday night, the air is filled with the neon glow of screens, and you're huddled on your favorite couch with a tub of ice cream (vegan, of course) while Netflix cues up the latest binge-worthy series. You're all set for a night of catching up on the latest millennial pop culture sensation, and a voice in your head says, "What if I could be part of something amazing like this?"

But here's the thing, my fellow millennials, that voice in your head isn't just talking about sharing your witty comments in an online fan forum. It's nudging you to tackle your fears, take action, and make your own life as incredible as those fictional worlds on screen. Yes, even when you're scared.

Fear is a powerful emotion that can hold us back from achieving our goals, pursuing our dreams, and making a real impact in our lives. But what if we told you that fear doesn't have to be a roadblock? You actually have control!

So grab your avocado toast, and here are my tips to uncover the secrets to taking action despite those butterflies in your stomach. It's time to turn the stories we love into our own reality.

1. Embrace Your Fear: The first step to taking action when you're scared is to acknowledge and embrace your fear. It's perfectly normal to feel afraid, and sometimes, fear can serve as a valuable indicator that you're stepping outside your comfort zone.

Fear is a natural response to uncertainty and change. Instead of resisting or denying your fear, embrace it. Acknowledge its presence, and understand that it often indicates that you're stepping out of your comfort zone. By recognizing and accepting your fear, you can prevent it from becoming paralyzing. This acknowledgment gives you the opportunity to confront it head-on and use it as a source of motivation.

Rather than suppressing or denying your fear, allow yourself to fully experience it. Take a moment to understand what's causing your fear, and recognize that it often stems from the uncertainty of the unknown.

One effective technique is to journal your fears. Write down what you're afraid of and why. This process allows you to gain clarity about the specific aspects of the situation that make you anxious. With this understanding, you can start to address and challenge those fears more effectively.

2. Break It Down: I mean, have a dance break because we love a good break it down moment. But when you are feeling flooded with fear you just have to remember you don't have to do everything all at once. Fear can be overwhelming, especially when you're facing a big, daunting task.

Fear often becomes overwhelming when you're facing a big, complex task. To make it more manageable, break the task into smaller, more achievable steps. Create a clear action plan that outlines your goals and the specific actions required to reach them.

By focusing on one step at a time, you can reduce the anxiety associated with taking action. As you complete these smaller tasks, you'll gain a sense of accomplishment, which can boost your confidence and diminish your fear. It's like climbing a mountain – taking it one step at a time makes the summit more attainable. When you focus on accomplishing one small step at a time, the fear associated with the entire task becomes more manageable.

3. Cultivate a Growth Mindset:

Developing a growth mindset can be a game-changer when it comes to taking action despite fear. Instead of viewing challenges as insurmountable obstacles, see them as opportunities for personal growth and development. Understand that making mistakes and experiencing setbacks are integral parts of the learning process. By shifting your perspective to embrace these challenges, you can turn fear into a driving force for positive change.

Remind yourself that the journey is just as important as the destination. Approach every experience, whether successful or not, with curiosity and a desire to learn. This shift in mindset can help reduce the paralyzing effect of fear and encourage you to take action despite it.

4. Visualize Success: Visualization is a powerful tool to help combat fear and boost your confidence. Take a moment to vividly imagine yourself successfully completing the task at hand. Picture the positive outcomes, the emotions of achievement, and the sense of pride you'll experience. Visualization can create a sense of certainty about your potential success, helping to alleviate fear.

Practice this mental exercise regularly, especially when you're about to take action. Visualizing success can reinforce your belief in your abilities and increase your confidence in facing challenging situations. It can also help you stay focused on the positive aspects of the task rather than dwelling on potential negative outcomes.

5. Find Support and Accountability:

Don't hesitate to seek support from friends, family, mentors, or support groups. Sharing your goals and fears with others can provide you with valuable encouragement and accountability. Knowing that you have a support system can make taking action less intimidating. Your support network can offer guidance, share their own experiences, and provide motivation when fear threatens to hold you back.

Accountability partners are especially helpful. They can help you stay on track by checking in on your progress, holding you responsible for your commitments, and celebrating your successes, no matter how small. Being part of a community of like-minded individuals who are also taking action despite their fears can be incredibly empowering and motivating. Remember, you don't have to face your fears alone; there are people who believe in you and want to see you succeed.


Taking action when you're scared is a skill that can be developed and refined over time. If you want some help and guidance, I have a FREE GUIDE with my top three tips to stop people pleasing and choose yourself. This could be a really powerful start to have your "ah-ha" moment and start prioritizing YOU.

By acknowledging your fear, breaking tasks into manageable steps, adopting a growth mindset, visualizing success, and seeking support, you can empower yourself to conquer your fears and make progress toward your goals. Remember, fear is a natural part of the journey to personal growth and success.

Take action go after the life you want! THAT is what it means to be an Empowered Millennial.

So, don't let it hold you back; instead, let it propel you forward. You've got this!


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